ARE YOU KIDDING ME??

"You don't look like you can cook. Your demeanor comes off as spoiled and high maintenance, like you can't take care of yourself..."
-My fucking co-worker!!!
My co-worker didn't mean to offend me but she did. I've pretty much been taking care of myself since I was 12 years old. I mean, mom and dad raised me as parents should but for the most part I did it on my own. I did it all by myself. I've worked hard to get everything I have and I do a very good job at cooking! lol How does someone look like they can or can't cook??? smh Crazy.
I am far from spoiled...
I do this!

CHRIS TALKS!

I'm glad that Chris Brown finally got a chance to voice his worldwide apology but I'm sick of hearing about it. Although its the truth, it's a little selfish to say. Also, no more jokes because if the tables were turned and it was one of my family members or close friends, I damn sure wouldn't be so nonchalant about it. Real talk.
I think Chris is sincerely sorry that he smacked her ass around... and that he got caught. But, at the end of the day, the decision to forgive is up to Rihanna, not me. He didn't hurt me when he dogged her.... but I was a little disappointed. I've always thought she was crazy, I just didn't think he would let her drive his fists to her face... more than once. smh
oh wells!!!
"If you don't have anything nice to say...
...don't say anything at all"

BAD GIRL BAD GIRL

I committed a small crime
so now its time to pay.
literally!
smfh.

PICTURES OF THE DAY!

My 20th Bday Celebration

JULY 10, MY BIRTHDAY!

Today is my 20th birthday

I want to take the time out to thank God for my life. Despite my ups and downs, I am grateful to be alive. Thanks to everyone for the birthday wishes by the way…

Photo Credit: Sandra G.

GOTTA LOVE HER!

STAY CLOSE: HIS ADDICTION

I processed a book at work by Libby Cataldi last week entitled, "Stay Close". This book is amazing! I found time to read it without getting caught. Stay Close is the intense account of what a child's drug addiction feels like from a parent's point of view- what the family did right and wrong. Libby, the mother and author, discusses how often her family thought they were supporting their son, Jeff, but were instead supporting his habit. It took Libby and Jeff over two years to make sense and truth of his addiction.
If I read correctly, starting in the 5th grade, Jeff was exposed to cigarettes, marijuana, microdots, MDE, ecstasy, ketamine, herione, paraphernalia, PCP, mescaline, crystal meth, coke, and LSD! Sheeesh!
[Jeff, the addict, is sitting down]
They're from Calvert County...
Quince View Meadows
DMV stand up! LOL

TURN UP THE VOLUME!

Another great hit!
"...yaw look at the top where they put me at,
if you gonna jump, make a move, what you lookin at?"
[click link to download]

NO TITLE!

i need a big ass box.
a box that i can step inside of.
and say everything to everyone that i've never said.
and probably never will.
damn man.
you say so much without saying anything at all.

COMMENTS!

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LOVE

“A heart filled with love, for self and for others, is required for realizing the divine within. Love occupies the highest place in consciousness.”

NEW BOYZ: JERKS!

I actually like this song... and the video!
Youre A Jerk - New Boyz

PIC OF THE WEEK: MY GODSISTERS...

Melissa Williams & Chanel Williams
I love you both!
Love you too Jmoney!
LOL

ELECTRIK RED & RICHGIRL

Richgirl
Before I start with these lovely ladies, let me reassure you that Sandra & I DID NOT steal their name nor did we steal their reason behind their name. This is just a HUGE coincidence. I guess great minds think alike. Anywho, I love them. They are really lull and preserved yet have a lot of personality. The difference between Richgirl & any other girl group begins with the obvious... they all can genuinely sing... really good. I'm really excited for their future.
Electrik Red
These ladies are barbaric... in a good way. Although only one person in the group, who by the by sounds like Kelis, can sing, they make decent music. i love them. Its just a little weird how they were dancers randomly thrown together to create music group... and it worked. Some songs on their album are simply stupid but overall, I listen to it almost every day. Do I see them lasting long, not really. But for the moment, keep the mayhem coming girls!

SISTER SISTER

DNA is an abbreviation...

deoxyribonucleicaqntidisetablishmentarianism

..."a complex string of syllables"

Dave Barry

NO OFFENSE BUT....

You are self centered.
I wish you had more to talk about other than your career path so I could actually like you. You're cooler than most people would think. I find myself asking a number of different questions [as I do with everyone else] but somehow we still end up talking about your hustle. Thats wack!
You are super gay.
I stopped talking to you years ago because you were appealing to the eye but had absolutely no conversation, no excitement, no life. I gave you another try recently and you ruined it. You finally showed me that you're human and that you have personality but then you turned around and failed to launch, twice. Not the business.
You are undefined.
I haven't known you long but already I can tell you're the type who involves a chase. I don't feel like running. You seem like a great guy but you almost act as if you've never had experience in the building blocks department. Maybe thats just it, you're new to this. My advice to you, man up. Take a risk.  
You are milk worthy.
You constantly throw yourself at me all the time and expect me smile and giggle. Sir, please don't take this friendship for more than what it is. If you continue to act the way you are, I will be forced to do nothing but milk you. Squeez as much out of you as you let me. The decision is yours.
You are impossible.
I tried to put things back to where they were before but you refuse to fully work with me. Although I still want you, I wonder for how much longer. I just don't want to stop liking you but I know I will soon. I will be here whenever you need me fuckboy. If closure is what I need, then closure is what I will get. This is the end babe. No strings attached. 

THE GAME

The Game 
This is a great televsion show, please don't cancel it!!!

Rich Girls 101

I feel that certian people need clarification of where exactly the "Rich Girls" came from and what we represent. When we refer to ourselves as the Rich Girls, we aren't necessarily referring to money. We are rich in love, beauty, intelligence, independence, and talent. Enough said. If you disagree, prove me wrong. I beg you. So, for all you people who think Sandra & I are two "statistics", kiss my ass... and get off my blog bitch!

Black Collection & 1st Impressions Studio

3 QUESTIONS!!!

Do you find it easier to forgive than confront???
I believe that its easier to forgive but smarter to confront first. This was a question I came across in the book I'm currently reading, "Behaving Like Adults", by Anna Maxted. Anna Maxted is really particular about her word usage. This book definitely expands my vocabulary. 
Does the size of your girl really matter???
This is for the guys this time. Does it matter??? I asked bmore this question and he responded, "of course!" LOL But when I asked why it mattered, he switched to retarded mode and pretty much ignored my question. Then he went on to say "it depends".  
Have you ever played "Never Ever"???
 If you were at our party Saturday, you've played. LOL This is a very, and i mean VERY interesting game. Funny too. Ask about it.

YOU'RE HOT THEN YOU'RE... HOTTER LLS!

A genuine Ugg is made from natural sheepskin & is comfortable enough to wear barefoot. The lanolin oil of the sheepskin will moisturize your feet & the wool fibers will keep them warm.
If the temperatures of Uggs range from 30-80 degrees, why do girls wear them with shorts in the winter & swimsuits in the summer? Its cute sometimes but it completely defeats the original purpose of buying them.
LOL
then they have the nerve to make this...

SMDH

GO GIRL:

www.Facebook.com

People say Facebook gets you caught up.
I disagree.
Can you tell your friends to tell their friends to tell their friends and cousins and cousins friends that Facebook... is a fucking website. not a voice recording system. not a camera. not a not a robot. not a human. NOT A PAIR OF HANDS. Just like you decide which pictures you want to post on Facebook, you can decide what details you will put out as your status. Facebook, the website, does not have the ability to expose you. YOU type your personal information and then YOU click "post". So, if you decided to put, for example, "[your name here] is kissing his girlfriends bestfriend"... that's on you dumbass! smh
conclusion
Facebook does not get you caught up...
you do.

THE REAL:

...if you take life for granted,
it'll grant you some other shit...
-Joe Budden